Letting Go of Avoidant Love

Letting Half-Love Leave I noticed when he walked away this time, he didn’t see he was abandoning himself more than he was abandoning me. He didn’t see it but for the first time, I did.  In the past I would be distraught and confused, consumed with ache and anxiety and self-loathing at his leaving.  I …

The Joys of Online Dating

A Midnight Rant about Online Dating Can we just call it out that online dating is fucking horseshit?  I mean Jesus fuck. Sorry if this is not PC but there are some creepy ass motherfuckers out there. Not to be mean, but honest question: why would you take a close-up picture of your eye, just …

Parenting Teenagers… With Coffee and Dogshit

Parenting Teenagers… with Coffee and Dog Shit. I grabbed a coffee and headed for the living room, blissfully unaware of the shit waiting for me there.  This was my daily ritual of early morning solace: coffee and quiet on the couch, with a fuzzy blanket and the sunrise. When my kids were younger it was …